Are women welcome on this forum (honest answer). And, how can we change it to make them active here?

[Deleted member 46200]

If anybody wants to know this fuss can PM me.
Sweetcaroline I tried to help but looks like others were right about you. You will be the first member on my Ignore list.

If you don't learn from things then there is no hope for you, and the PM you sent me about Jen is beyond ridiculous do you really think we live in a lesbian commune where we are 'yeah sure no problem we'll do that any tweaked up sad act thing you ask us to do is pure filth' this underlines what I have been saying, answer is NO! Deal with it and ignore me.

Don't let the chip on your shoulder get the better of you, learn from it I have not been unreasonable treat us like individuals I have replied to most with individual messages... Learn that little thing about respect and become the bigger person. ACCEPT WHEN YOU ARE WRONG!!! I have.

 

[hardik85]

If you don't learn from things then there is no hope for you, and the PM you sent me about Jen is beyond ridiculous do you really think we live in a lesbian commune where we are 'yeah sure no problem we'll do that any tweaked up sad act thing you ask us to do is pure filth' this underlines what I have been saying, answer is NO! Deal with it and ignore me.

Don't let the chip on your shoulder get the better of you, learn from it I have not been unreasonable treat us like individuals I have replied to most with individual messages... Learn that little thing about respect and become the bigger person. ACCEPT WHEN YOU ARE WRONG!!! I have.

from what i have seen so far on this forum is that you get irritated , angry and hyper very fast. I have personally experienced it from you. Maybe because of some problems in the past. Everyone has problems. Even i had some and still have. Also you seem to give too much importance to male-female things i.e gender thing. If you behave normally and be less rude then you should not have problem with anyone.
talking about replies and thanks, even men do not get them many times. It has nothing to do with you being a female.
also i don't know who said "there are so many Asians they all look the same" whoever said this or has such views is very ignorant. On the contrary there is huge diversity in asia unlike other continents. For e.g big difference between south and east asians. so one cannot say that all asians are the same or look same.

 

[Deleted member 46200]

i don't know who said "there are so many Asians they all look the same" whoever said this or has such views is very ignorant. On the contrary there is huge diversity in asia unlike other continents. For e.g big difference between south and east asians. so one cannot say that all asians are the same or look same. They are not the most intelligent of humans, let's just say.

Everyone seems to know what I write and when I write and about what I write so, I am the most 'observed' person on this site. My antics and moods are well documented and spoken about, if someone of the opposite sex has the same level of 'tantrums' then these are never noticed. Funny how there are people on here that can quote posts of mine from months ago with alarming accuracy. No one will admit to this but in PM's and posts in threads I and others have seen the correlation of fact... Scary? No, human nature and a fascination of the opposite sex. The ones who want more will show themselves and the ones who act with decorum and respect will sit on the sides. This is not always sexualisation but grown men with daughters my age understanding where I am coming from but treat it with the pastoral care of a father.

 

[Alexei.]

You need to follow me and no disrespect you have... ? So where's the problem.[DOUBLEPOST=1500889898][/DOUBLEPOST]
Interesting you remember so much about what I have said and where I have posted it...? You heave great stamina.

Like if I am not following you.

 

[Deleted member 46200]

Like if I am not following you.

Then you should be able to PM me... ? And we have x

 

[hardik85]

i don't know who said "there are so many Asians they all look the same" whoever said this or has such views is very ignorant. On the contrary there is huge diversity in asia unlike other continents. For e.g big difference between south and east asians. so one cannot say that all asians are the same or look same. They are not the most intelligent of humans, let's just say.

Everyone seems to know what I write and when I write and about what I write so, I am the most 'observed' person on this site. My antics and moods are well documented and spoken about, if someone of the opposite sex has the same level of 'tantrums' then these are never noticed. Funny how there are people on here that can quote posts of mine from months ago with alarming accuracy. No one will admit to this but in PM's and posts in threads I and others have seen the correlation of fact... Scary? No, human nature and a fascination of the opposite sex. The ones who want more will show themselves and the ones who act with decorum and respect will sit on the sides. This is not always sexualisation but grown men with daughters my age understanding where I am coming from but treat it with the pastoral care of a father.

"My antics and moods are well documented and spoken about, if someone of the opposite sex has the same level of 'tantrums' then these are never noticed"
this is because you are the only active female member here i think. The same thing would have happened to a male member on a female dominated forum.

 

[Deleted member 46200]

"My antics and moods are well documented and spoken about, if someone of the opposite sex has the same level of 'tantrums' then these are never noticed"
this is because you are the only active female member here i think. The same thing would have happened to a male member on a female dominated forum.

Oh I know this to be true talk about Lord of the flies...

 

[surendar]

Gender is just as important as age as we all have a different set of values and opinions. Being the only one here is different to being on a female dominated site. On mums.net you see the men playing the gender card and being singled out it's nothing personal just human nature we all crave to be individuals but somehow get crowded out. It also comes down to the way and reason we use internet forums. For me it's a way of engaging with people I spend a lot of time alone for others it's a source of information and nothing more.

Caroline, this is not mums.net. This is "planetcricket" - sports & games forum. You can try participating in leagues or participate in fantasy cricket or write your DBC17 story or start your own league or participate in some game threads like mafia around, to increase your interaction with members. PM and private chats are not meant for being a key feature of a sports forum though it does exist. If your views/posts are meaningful in threads you post, you would definitely see members reacting by follow-up interactions leading to healthy conversations. If your views/posts are NOT getting follow-up interactions or being a lead to healthy conversations, perhaps - it is really worth to do self assessment on content you are posting instead of asking other members on reasons they didn't reply. Did you try to assess your posts - whether it is too general? whether it is too offtopic? whether it is too playful? whether it is too distracting the context of the thread? There are so many so many reasons behind if you don't get a reply on this forum & it isn't always other people's fault and it really depends.

I am a person who respects individuality and hearing some racist view "there are so many Asians they all look the same" this abhorrently disgusts me everyone I interact with here I like them to feel and know they have the respect and consideration they are an individual with dreams and aspirations. If there was a balance of males and females then my individuality would shift to my heritage as an Australian. I don't knowingly use the gender card but being the only one it is very unusual for me and I don't know how to act. Being honest I don't have a great deal of experience with men, that's honesty!

For racist comments, you can very well report those posts. For any offensive content, you can report those posts. They are always dealt with needed actions taken against those members. If you feel somewhere that, you did not get correct action taken, you can always PM admin group here.

There is nothing to feel complicated about being here, just be a normal member and enjoy the stay!!

 

[hardik85]

she bowls too many bouncers which go over the head.

 

[Deleted member 46200]

she bowls too many bouncers which go over the head.

Hey, I'm a spin bowler thank you and never wide of the mark![DOUBLEPOST=1500908397][/DOUBLEPOST]

For racist comments, you can very well report those posts. For any offensive content, you can report those posts. They are always dealt with needed actions taken against those members. If you feel somewhere that, you did not get correct action taken, you can always PM admin group here.

This was said outside of PC but still a daft in incendiary statement all the same.

 

[Deleted member 46200]

Caroline, this is not mums.net.

No shit!!!

'sports & games forum'

Then how do you explain the thousands of threads dedicated to 'other' subjects there is fun to be had talking about different things not just for women but for men too.

Do you know what mums.net is???

 

[surendar]

This was said outside of PC but still a daft in incendiary statement all the same.

Ignore them, it is easy. Those kind of sentences always trigger unhealthy quarrels instead of debates, there is a difference.

 

[surendar]

No shit!!!

'sports & games forum'

Then how do you explain the thousands of threads dedicated to 'other' subjects there is fun to be had talking about different things not just for women but for men too.

Do you know what mums.net is???

Whatever dedicated other subjects thread you are referring to, it is in minority section in my opinion - to be frank, they are in bottom section of main forums for a reason.

 

[Deleted member 46200]

Ignore them, it is easy. Those kind of sentences always trigger unhealthy quarrels instead of debates, there is a difference.

THese are designed to cause friction but my point is everyone is unique.

Whatever dedicated other subjects thread you are referring to, it is in minority section in my opinion - to be frank, they are in bottom section of main forums for a reason.

So, what breakfast cereal do you like the best and what's your favorite color... ? This shit I live on (however, mad keen on sport) and I'm only one, shame!

 

[Fake Passport]

Ignore them, it is easy. Those kind of sentences always trigger unhealthy quarrels instead of debates, there is a difference.

I can tell you that my wife's Twitter and Instagram was tracked down and she was told in no uncertain terms to stay away from here, and that was the nicest thing that was said. Encouraging people to 'ignore it's is only perpetuating the issue...