This is in reference to
@CerealKiller latest post about Jealousy.
Jealousy can actually be disappointment with yourself.
That simply means that you are more disappointed in yourself, and you only need to work on yourself.
Fully agree with that - you end up being more disappointed in yourself , its like you start looking for the flaws in yourself which actually don't exist.
Happended with me a few years back when my close buddies who are working in the IT/Tech industry starting earning a lot of big packages and here was I struggling in the construction with less salary.
It puts you into that loop of self doubt/identity crisis where you end up questioning yourself like what I am doing wrong in life?
What worked for me was when I started comparing my own journey a few years back instead comparing with them is when I actually realised I doing good enough in life and have come up a long way to where I am toady.
As the old saying goes
Comparison is the thief of joy.