Random Thoughts

[pcfan123]

I couldn't have a relationship.

The idea of having to share everything with someone, the notion of having to actually care for somebody make me a little nauseous.

It's not so much that I'm selfish, more that I value the freedom to do what I want when I want a little too much.

I get to basically pick and choose when I work, which is great for arranging nights out with the lads etc, but if I had a girlfriend it'd be a nightmare as she'd expect me to cancel shifts to spend time for her and it'd be a pain and a logistical nightmare

To each their own, for me the companionship and mutual trust that develops from a relationship is far more gratifying than drinking with my friends.

 

[Highlander999]

Yeah, but let's be honest do you really want to be dragged around Art museums have to meet her annoying friends and see her scary family, or would you much rather just be able to go on the pull whenever you want? The answer for me is obvious, until I meet someone who makes me change my philosophy I'm gonna enjoy being young, rich and good looking :laugh

 

[pcfan123]

Sounds fine and dandy and I felt the same way, but your attitude might change when you realize you are only 4 years from 30.

 

[Sureshot]

Don't, I'm scared at how quickly the time has fone since my 18th.

My (slightly less than random) thoughts for the day are, I have finished my last piece of college work, barring any catastrophic problems with the claimation of my certificate. No more full-time education for me, I suppose my apprenticeship counts as some form of education.

:banana2

 

[ste_mc_efc]

To each their own, for me the companionship and mutual trust that develops from a relationship is far more gratifying than drinking with my friends.

it's not as simple as just preferring a night drinking with my mates to having a girlfriend.

Maybe things will change. But as things stands getting myself tangled into a relationship would be an absolute disaster.

 

[pcfan123]

Agreed, enjoy your early twenties, or at least the time in Uni.

Btw being in a relationship is not a bad thing, lol you can pretty much the same things as a single person, just in moderation. and there is a certain sense of satisfaction in caring about someone else as much as you do yourself.

 

[Highlander999]

So how is the old Mrs Right then Mark, eh? She know about Cali yet? Not so caring now

 

[pcfan123]

One or two indiscretions does not mean I don't care about her. And its a two way street btw, Ive been on the other end myself.

 

[Highlander999]

Each to his own, I suppose.

Anyway, if you think I'm arrogant take a look at our moderator, Mr Holden

olliiii says: think my imaginition rates people too highly
Tom says: not nearly highly enough when it comes to me
olliiii says: hahah, it's only like me you jack and ben that are actually fairly good looking
Tom says: reckon we can scrap ben after he shaved half his hair off

 

[pcfan123]

:laugh

love it, bunch of pasty English boys in love with themselves.

 

[Highlander999]

Nah Ollie fake tans and I'm pretty brown. Can't speak for Jack and Ben. But yeah, I do love myself and for a good reason

 

[pcfan123]

Ah, now I get why you guys don't want/need relationships. Too much self lovin going on round here

 

[Highlander999]

Nah, I'm still needing councelling after the beast The nightmares, oh God not again, nooooooo........................................ (The irony of 90% of the guys on this forum would love someone like her ain't lost on me and you Mark )

 

[Ollie_H]

Nah Ollie fake tans and I'm pretty brown. Can't speak for Jack and Ben. But yeah, I do love myself and for a good reason

That was the ol' days, don't do it anymore. Now i'm repping the nice golden tan.

 

[pcfan123]

Safe to say I have never done the nasty with a beast, might have made out with one once but never crossed the red line.

You should have sent her a bill the next day Tom