I did read through your entire post, but you basically lost me there.
I was 8 years old, growing up in Bangladesh, when we beat India and South Africa in the World Cup. We stayed up all night to watch the games, and the very next day, we'd go outside and play like it was no one's business bc we wanted to be one of those being world beaters. Kids my age, and the age of people I played with back then, have broken through the ranks and are out there giving their heart out for the team at Mirpur and abroad. All up and coming players with immense talent and passion have started by watching those games on the TV screens. They watched the team being decimated, but they knew that that's the biggest stage that there could possibly be, and they'd be willing to do anything to get up there and be on the winning side. You say that they need to play regularly against the bigger sides, but I don't see any of them offering tours or going on tours on a regular basis. That stage is the only place where they can cause an "upset" and grab the world's attention to even get those games in the first place. Shunning or segregating the lower ranked teams is nothing but a glorified caste system, where they aren't given the opportunity to improve and be one of the stronger teams. I also don't like how you're offering them the T20 tournament as some kind of a gift given out of sheer mercy. It's that snobbish attitude again that says "I don't have much time for you, so I'll give you five minutes to impress me". Come. On. T20 is a shortened, heavily commercialized version of the game which will hardly help development in the long run despite seeing some short term advances. If you want to see real development, you want to think long term first and foremost, before you throw in some short term boosts here and there.
And, if you feel like it's beneath you to watch an India vs Netherlands game on TV, guess what? No one cares. By all means, go about your day's work, make someone smile, and get some sleep. Literally no one will miss you if you choose not to watch the game. But to the passionate Dutch cricket fans, that match will mean the world, and I feel like they should be given that opportunity.