Here's a case to back up my post above:
Selected for 7 match 1 day series against Pakistan, batting at #2.
Match 1: Flat pitch, chasing 197 target. Scored 50 in 42 balls, started slogging, 122 not out (century on ODI debut!). Won by 9 wickets.
Matches 2-6: Frustrated. Scores include a 2nd ball duck, and nothing over 15 runs. 2 innings caught by a man on the edge of the circle, the other three edged to keeper or slips. Gave up and turned the game off.
Thinking about this later in the evening: matches 2-6 I never even looked at the pitch report or weather. The first game seemed easy so I assumed I could just muscle everything wherever I want. When I wasn't hitting the first ball or two for four (regardless of what they bowled) I just mashed the attack button or pre-selected an area to hit, then wondered why I was out cheap.
Game 7: Batting first on a green deck, overcast day. Took my time, defended good balls, kept an eye on the field but hit the ball on its merits. Lost 2 partners quickly, so tightened up and rebuilt the innings. When I mis-timed or played and missed, watched the replay and found flaws. Hit 64 in 88 balls before being caught top edging a pull. We defended 220, it was not a batting pitch.
The lesson: I believe for my play style and skill, my theory is right. It's not an arcade game, it's a cricket sim. If you play smart and concentrate, the game rewards you. If you think the game is about hitting big scores every innings, go buy Shane Warne Cricket '97 (or whatever it was called).
I hope you learn from my fail!