Decent? Negative at times? How much of this game did you actually watch? His captaincy was top notch. He rotated the bowlers well, fields were excellent. If you want the definition of negative, look at the England performance in the second innings with the bat. How is that Vettori being negative? He turned the screw on the batsmen because they weren't scoring. I don't know how you can fault his captaincy to be honest. It astounds me.
I think the toss was indeed very important, however, England still could have drawn the game if they weren't outplayed. They didn't score enough runs in their first innings. They batted long enough. Their second innings, sure it was hard to bat, but it wasn't 110 all out. However, that was some pretty good bowling from our bowlers.
England need to ditch Harmison. He's not the bowler he used to be and never will be again. England need to get either Anderson or Broad in the side. I'd probably add both and get rid of Hoggard who is obviously also a shadow of what he once was and under-prepared probably. Anderson was pretty unflattering for Auckland though, so maybe not. Panesar was also poor I felt, though he took 3-33 or something in the second innings, they were all gifts really from attacking strokes. He does seem to be the best guy England has and doesn't deserve dropping, but he seems also under-prepared.
Another point I want to make, is the comment about our batters looking poor in the second innings. Why is that? We were almost 100-1 and sure, we lost a bunch of wickets quickly, but you do realize it was because we were playing aggressively trying to get a lead so we could win?