Seems highly contradictory to me.
Maybe a lesson in don't judge people too quickly?
And I'm really sorry to hurt your feelings pertaining to the unfair comments on your friend. But if someone (Ashwin) does something like that, widely acknowledged by the cricketing world as within the laws but not the spirit and a person is going to empower them ("More power to him") then it all becomes a bit sour. I have seen how your good friend reacts when a Kohli simply gives a few send off's to a few batters.
Lol I don't get riled up over cricket discussions so don't worry you haven't hurt my "feelings". I have chatted with him probably once or twice in my time here on non-cricket things and if that qualifies as a friend, sure he is my friend.
Anyways, I don't think this argument is going anywhere so I guess we will just move it back to cricket.