Shoaib Akhtar has turned on some sense after his stint in India. Trust me, he is unbearable. I think Wasim Akram is sheer class. He's what an ambassador from the country should be like.
You're young at the moment, and at your age I wasn't as mature as you are at the moment, but I think when we are young we under-estimate the power of the media. If you see the media in Australia, England, SA, NZ etc. there is a lot to learn for the sub-continent. They're all biased when they do well, but they don't tear their cricketers apart when things are falling apart. I think India have learnt post the Chappel era. Honestly, I do watch some Pakistani shows, because a part of me really does want them to succeed if India can't as I do garner the feeling that we are all basically alike, just divided by the political lines drawn out ages ago. But, if I were a Pakistani cricketer, it would be hard to be hardcore passionate about playing for the country. Passion stems from support from your own people and unfortunately, by the powerful medium of television the Pakistan ex-cricketers and media seem hell bent on tearing their own cricketers apart day in and day out.
It is hard to tell how much respect I have for people like Misbah-Ul-Haq, Younus Khan and Shahid Afridi (T20) but it seems we respect them more than their own people, which is a very big shame. No doubt the structure in Pakistan is flawed and needs change (Limited overs only), but their test team is on the verge of the end of an era and I may add the end of a very successful, clean and triumphant era. All this mud slinging after the tests concluded was really sad. I can assure you, Chappel wouldn't have the stones to say that about India even if we lost 50 tests in Australia. He just can't.