I think you didn't read the example of Sohum
In that series, Aussies won 2-1 which would have turned other way if India had won that test ... I very well remember that because it happened in my area where Chepauk stadium is present.
Weather's impact on cricket does not affect England alone. Even the biggest series, WCup has many many scenarios. Sri Lanka is the best example. If we think of Lankans, the weather situation that affected England is minor. It not only happens recently, but also in the past too. Brian Mcmillan's frustration in one of the Wcups explains that.
Currently, I can understand that you are filled with frustrations. I have experienced similar thing during the DLF Cup finals when Dhoni was given out of a big no ball which was the climax of the match according to me! Even the bad umpiring decisions have costed so many matches for many teams and not only for England. So hope you get over this frustration soon